Entering sacred zone of LOVE
I would stick myself to only interpersonal relationship between the
two human beings, which can be labeled as the ‘real love’. It does not come
alone, with it comes multitude of emotions, desire, passion, lust,
expectations, disappointments, envy and pain. Everyone falls in love and it is
a solely desired emotion especially at a certain age. Some by peer pressure,
some by their own choice, but we all do it, I mean fall in love, and savor its
magic.
Magic of love |
Psychologist argued that real love has three different dimensions:
intimacy, commitment, and passion. Intimacy is a form in which two people share
confidences and various details of their personal lives, as usually shown in
friendships and in romantic love affairs. Commitment, on the other hand, is the
expectation that the relationship is permanent, as usually witness in marriage.
The last and most common form of love is the sexual attraction and passion. Unconditional love is so different from the kind of love most of us
have experienced in our lives that it deserves both a name of ‘Real Love’ and
definition of its own: we all get glimpses of this
Beauty of unconditional love |
unconditional love in our parent’s eyes,
but here also ‘time’ takes its toll and once a self less love loses its shine
to resentment and grievance.
It would also be very wrong to
mistook real love with attraction and passion, as both are physical desires
borne out of sex, and could be labeled as only ‘impression’ of love.
The beauty of ‘Real Love’ is that it is fulfilling and eliminates our
anger, confusion, and pain and got the capacity to take us to the pinnacle of
contentment. But one never gets this real unconditional love in life as
expectations seeps in relationships, and that would eventually gave birth to
anger, confusion and frustration.
Then who has got the capacity to give such 'sublime' love?
Only God can give us an unconditional love or sublime love.
GOD is pure love.
Sublime love |
Glitters of love. |
There is one more type of love, between a writer and his/her readers. I exist only because you acknowledge my writings.
So dear I LOVE YOU ALL.
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So dear I LOVE YOU ALL.
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